We want to experience “true love”, everyone wants that. Then we forget that there is an act called fake love.
Because of how we’re wrapped with this God created feeling, we forget that there are people out there who live for the word FAKE.
I am going to give us a list of the signs in which we can use to identify a fake love when we see one. It is actually the opposite of everything in 1 Corinthians 13.
1) It isn’t patient:
A fake love doesn’t have time to overlook your excesses, or stay long for you to change or adjust your ways.
2) Kindness is not in their dictionary:
You know the Bible says out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. Well in their case it is doeth, the feeling isn’t genuine or real so everything they do for you will be harsh and rash instead of being kind, sweet, caring and loving.
3) It is very envious:
Everything you accomplish in your goal list only make the furious and more hateful towards you, as if you are the case of their own downfall or setback. True love isn’t envious because everything is for two and not for one.
4) It is boastful:
It talks about everything that he/she has achieved all the time, giving you no room for your own inputs or achievements. Making everything conversation about themselves themselves and themselves. It’s like the are in a relationship with them self alone and you are the third party that is only good for listening and no commenting.
5) It is proud:
They are too proud to ask for help, to say sorry for their wrong doing, they are to proud to associate with you in public. They feel like they are better than you and that they are doing you a favor by being In a relationship with you.
6) It Dishonors:
Their is no respect for you inside the house or outside the house. Their is no respect towards your own part in the relationship, be it the provider or caretaker. It only cares about itself.
7) Self seeking is it’s specialty:
It only pays attention to it need and wants before that if others. It seeks things for himself only or first because they are the only thing that matters to them.
8) Easily angered:
Everything provokes them, it irritates them, every little mistake is not meant to happen, you aren’t perfect to them and so they have to correct you for every mistake. Be physically, emotionally, physcologically and mentally. Their only love language correction is anger.
9) It has records of all your wrongs:
It keeps tab of every fight, every word you use that they feel is insulting, every face you make, every mood that looks like an insult. Everything you do is wrong to them and so they keep records of it and use it against you in the future. Always bringing up the past in the future.
10) it delights in evil:
It derives joy from being wicked to you, from hurting you, from making sacred. It’s only pleasure is to bring you under is mercy were it has control over you.
11) It’s foundation is built on lies and abuse:
They were never going into the relationship for it to last, so from the on set everything they feed you with are lies, deceit, and fake stories. They use you as their stress reliever, physically or vocally.
12) It is never programmed to last long:
They are not in for till death do us part but they are infor till I do us part by leaving you. After using, destroying, degrading, and killing your sel-esteem. You were just their to help them kill time and boredom.
If you notice any of this signs in 1corinthians 13, then I can boldly tell you that you are in a fake love and a fake relationship that is heading no where.
The Bible says that love is God and God is love. God so loved us that he gave us the love signs to prove to us that he truly loves us.
So if someone says they love you then they should be willing to showcase the true love signs in the Bible.