Wondering whether a guy is into you, is one of the most frustrating and mentally unhealthy positions a woman could be in.
You must have thought of a million ways why he is the way he is, or giving excuses for his behaviour in the relationship. Don’t worry sis, I have made a list- if he shows signs of these then he is almost certainly not into you.
1. Poor Communication;
Communication is the basic foundation of a relationship, there is nothing that holds down a relationship like communication.
If he is not always texting, calling, or messaging you and you are the one who communicates with him first all the time or he never initiates a conversation – that’s a huge sign that he’s not that into you.
When a guy is into you, he wants to talk to you. He loves to talk to you. He craves talking to you. Most of the time he contacts you first.
2. Calls you for or always talks about s*x;
If he only calls you when he wants to have s*x, that means you are nothing but a booty call to him. He just keeps you around for s*x*al pleasures and nothing more.
Also if his conversations are always centered on how he wants to get you into his bed whenever you are trying to engage in a meaningful conversation far from a s*x*al nature with him, he really is not into you and you are only worth keeping around for the fun of it.
A guy who loves you would like to know your passions, desires, dreams and aspirations (not saying you can’t have naughty talk with your lover but not all the time).
3. Talks to you about the women in his bedded and he tends to flirt with everyone;
This says “you’re a friend, not a potential girlfriend” Statement, a guy who is seriously into a woman would never ask for advice on his love life with other women.
That screams that you’re his friend, a source of information into a woman’s perspective regarding certain things, rather than someone he’s interested in dating.
Flirting with other women and asking for their number in your presence is a big “I don’t care for you sign”. If he loves you, he will respect you and when he respects you, he surely knows his boundaries.
4. Hardly spends time with you and does not get jealous;
If he does not spend or tries to spend time with you, then its a huge sign he is not just into you. It might even be one of the biggest sign.
There is no mountain too high that can stop a guy in love from spending time with the woman of his dreams, chances are that he will always request that you both meet up and spend some time together.
A guy who’s into you is a guy who’s super sensitive to competition. He might not go charging off threatening to fight any guy who looks at you (obviously not), but an interested guy is a guy who’s going to pay attention when you mention another guy, if he does not do that when you mention another guy. It is a huge sign that he is not into you.
5. You have not met his friends;
Well it is a well known fact that guys care about their friends opinions when it comes to who they are dating, they like to know if their friends think their girl is pretty and stuff like that.
If you have not met his friends, then maybe you have been in a relationship all by yourself.
Ladies/Guys remember these tips for next time you engage in a friendship with the strong potential of becoming a relationship.