It is only a blind woman or man that will see all the wrong signs in the person they are dating and still say I will change him. Are you for real! You aren’t God and people don’t change people, you can only influence, that person will to change or the person can change because they love you.
Some times people feel like they are above this thing called reality but they aren’t and they don’t want to accept it.
Now due to the desperation of so many women and men sometimes to have a particular person they feel is to good for them, they begin to ignore all these dangerous signs that can make that person your prayer point every day to God.
Domestic abuse cannot be a way to express love for your partner. When they hit you and you turn a blind eye to it and instead convince yourself by thinking it is their own expression of his love for you. it’s better to tell yourself the truth on time than to be sorry.
When I say someone is a prayer partner, it is because that person doe not give you headache that a whole nation can give to you in one year of your marriage and then you begin to pray for God to change him or touch his heart for him to adjust.
Instead you experience that heaven on earth life, not because everything is going well without any issues but because even in that person’s flaws he or she has made room for error and correction.
There is that need to want to become better for their spouse, they want to share the burden together in prayers to the Lord, they want you to become better and grow in every area because stagnation is not what they picture in their better half.
Then a prayer point is the chief adviser to the devil on wrecking your life matters. How is it possible that someone who claims to love you and want to be with you, will be the same person that will crush you with every little chance they get. They will hit you, they will block every chances of you getting a ahead in life, cutting off your social network and alienate you from family and friends. They would engage in promiscuous behaviour whilst waving the flag of morality over your head and profess love that doesn’t exist.
An unending prayer relationship with God on behalf of your partner asking him to align the mood of your partner with that of a peaceful day.
It’s not every man or woman who walks through your life that you should date or marry; Some are just meant to be friends, acquaintances, colleagues or enemies at most.
When we turn people who are meant to be just friends into lovers we end up having prayer points but if wisdom and patience can be applied into your search for a partner then you will end up with the right person who is a prayer partner.