I know it has been a while, but today I found out about something that made me very sad. So last week I met this very nice guy, although he was not my type of guy (cause I am into fair guys) I was very attracted to him.
He had a nice house, a well-paid job and a good ride (not that it is important to me anyway). He has been asking me out and I thought I should give him a chance, but I found out he is a cultist which threw me off balance, I have not had a good experience with people who belong to a cult group. Let me tell you a story.
When I got admission into the university, I met a guy in school, he was totally my type, he was fair, handsome and looked decent. Although we had not spoken to each other before, one could tell we liked each other a lot, his friends knew and my friends knew.
He seemed like the shy type who will never ask a girl out and was always quick to look away whenever I caught him looking at me. So, one day, I was with my friends in the school mini-mart and he was also there with his friends. I could hear them urging him to come speak to me, they were saying
“Go tell her, she likes you too”
Hearing that, I became so nervous and wanted to leave the mini-mart as quick as possible. I then heard his voice call my name, without even thinking I walked away from him, till this day I can not explain why I did that.
When we came back for the second semester of my year one, I noticed his choice of friends had changed, he started hanging around with the wrong type of crowd in school and I avoided him, but for how long? I never knew he had something in store for me.
One Tuesday evening, after I was through with my lectures, I was walking a lonely partway home when I got dragged into a bush nearby, not knowing who or what was happening, I started to scream.
“Shut up joor, or else we go finish you for here,” a voice said to me.
Scared and nervous I did what was asked of me; I was surrounded by three boys and they took me to a nearby tree in the bush.
“What do you want”? I asked in a very scared voice but I got no answer from them. After some minutes, my crush came to the bush, I was shocked to see him there.
” You look surprised,” he said as he laughed
“Why have you brought me here”? I asked
” You know why” he replied “You embarrassed me
He told me of how he was determined to get me after I had embarrassed him that day at the school’s mini-mart, he stated that he had to join a cult gang because they promised him a lot of perks if he belonged.
After his explanation, he asked me out but I turned him down, feeling very bitter and upset he threatened to kill anyone that I would later date in the school before letting me go.
Well, of course, I did not take him seriously and thought he was bluffing not until he attacked a guy I was getting to know that same semester and had one day showed up in my lodge, on a day one a couple of friends and my roommate’s seminarian friend came to visit us.
Ever since then, I stayed away from boys and relationships till I graduated from school and I have never wanted to come in contact with any guy that was involved in cultism