Some times people feel like they are above this thing called reality but they aren’t and they don’t want to accept it.
It is only a blind woman or man that will see all the wrong signs in the person they are dating and still say I will change him. Are you for real?
You aren’t God and people don’t change people, you can only influence that person’s will to change or the person can change because they love you.
Now due to the desperation of so many women and men sometimes to have a particular person they feel is good for them, they begin to ignore all this dangerous signs that can make that person your prayer point every day to God.
How is it that he slaps you and then it turns into boxing match his own way of showing is love for you, it’s better to tell yourself the truth on time than to be sorry.
When i say someone is a prayer partner, it is because that person doesn’t not give you headache that a whole nation can give to you in one year of your marriage and then you begin to pray for God to change him or touch is heart for him to adjust.
Instead you experience that heaven on earth life, not because everything is going well without any issues but because even in that person’s flaws he or she has made room for error and correct, their is need to want to become better for their spouse, they want to share the burden together in prayers to the Lord, they want you to become better and grow in every area because stagnation is not what they picture in their better half.
Then a prayer point is the chief adviser to the devil on wrecking your life matters. How is it possible that someone who claims to love you and want to be with you, will be the same person that will crush you with every little chance they get.
He will beat you, he will block every chances of you getting a job so other men won’t look at you, he will disconnect you from friends and family, he will follow everything in skirt, and still come back to beg and prophesy love that doesn’t exist and same with the ladies.
Instead of you to enjoy a good, steady and stable relationship, you end up being in an unending prayer relationship were you have to align the mood of your partners to God so that you can have a peaceful day instead of a peaceful day.
It’s not every man or woman that walks through your life that you must date, some are just meant to be friends.
When we turn people who are meant to be just friends into lover we end up having prayer points but if wisdom and patience can be applied into your search for a partner then you will end up with the right person which Is a prayer partner.