According to him, any church doctrine that kick against friendship, dating and courtship or demand single ladies not to visit a man they are betrothed to should be disregarded.
Zubby stated this on his twitter page (@ZubbyGodson22), saying;
“Dear single guys/ladies, don’t listen to anybody or church principle that states you shouldn’t visit the person you’re betrothed to. Don’t listen to anybody or church principle that is against friendship, dating and courtship.”
He charged ladies not to get married simply because their parents or pastor suggested the man will make a good husband.
“Never marry someone you don’t know for long| Never marry who someone else like parents or a pastor suggested for you). Don’t listen to anybody or church principle that discourages you from asking your partner deep s** related questions and possibly getting romantic at the peripheral stage to know what his s**ual life look like.”
Initially these principles were set in place by church leaders based on their own views.
We are all aware that many churches thisdays preach against divorce and romantic connection before marriage but this fellow believes all this were unnecessary and getting out of the marriage in case of infidelity is the best idea for him and others who want to have peace mind.
“Don’t listen to anybody or church principle that won’t let you conduct fertility/HIV/blood group/genotype test. And when married, don’t endure a marriage with uncontrollable infidelity and physical abuse. Go away once it gets to the breaking point. Be happy with yourself even if you don’t remarry.”