As time goes on we begin to discover the things that makes our relationship look like a show or a fake due to the things we go through.
People always say situation makes you better but definitely not all because some gets u broken, shamed, depressed and unstable, both physically and mentally.
We are going to be talking about some of these situations that make our relationships a lie or false.
1. Emotional Abuse:
This is one of the most dangerous for of abuse because it deals with our inner being, and most of us go through this everyday of our lives. We make our partners dumping basket of stress, hatred, frustration and bad day, which is not the perfect example in a relationship..
There are other ways to take out your frustration and bad day, and this is not one.
2. Physical Abuse:
This is one of the delusional thing any human can do and it’s a double NO in a relationship; taking pains all in the name of love is not love because even in the Bible it’s written, love your neighbour as thyself. That means you must love yourself first to love anyone like you. Taking physical pain from your partner is physical abuse and not love.
It is morally and religiously wrong and stupid.
3. Refusal to accept your dreams and aspirations:
Must often some of us tend to allow our lives to be controlled because we don’t know the best of ourselves, that’s why we give our partners the upper hand to decide which dream is better for us which to me I will say it’s a stupid decision. you know better where and what you want your life to look like so allowing someone else to give me the dreams they feel is better and rejecting the ones you have because they feel its less.
4. Not acknowledging the relationship outside:
Truth be told, we have people that hate public display of affection, if your partner decide that you guys will not tell people that your dating maybe good and bad sometimes but not when he fluntes other people around you, making them believe that you guys aren’t dating in order to have multiple relationship that’s nonsense and not normal.
we have so allowed ourselves to be in situations that counter the term relationship making it into a false situationship and if we don’t learn how not to adjust to this situations because we think its the whole package of a relation then its up to us to live with the consequences of our actions which can be out of pity or because of people’s opinion.
We should learn to live right by having a healthy relationship