Now what is a high road? Let me guess, a high way to the grave? Lmao… That was a joke.
A high road simple means being the bigger person and deciding not to hurt a person you have the power to hurt. This applies to relationships.
There is something called the high and low road in relationships, so let me tell you something about both because many of us don’t know when we’ve gotten it wrong or fight, which has resulted to break up, fight, grudge, and lot mor
Moving on. The low road;
1) The low road in relationship is like the way to hell and we all, in one way or the other fall victim which is, not reciprocating kind gestures and love, and also reacting to people’s bad habit. From snubbing to side comments and have.
This means you reacting to your spouse’s bad habit is taking the low road. You not reciprocating kind gestures is taking the low road, and we all have been victims.
Moving to the next. The high road;
2) The high road is the bigger road where you treat people right irrespective of their relationship with you. This is where your actions and reactions are not dependent on how they treat or act towards you.
This where you set a standard which applies to everyone, that makes you proactive. And in relationship, There is no difference.
So if you want to enjoy your relationship and have a good time, be on the high road where you don’t react to people’s actions, where only your feelings of wanting to makes everyone happy matters.
But don’t ever remain in an abusive relationship because you’re on the high road. Learn to know the difference and walk away because at the end of the day you’re have to choose between being in control of your life or being controlled.
The choice is yours